“You don’t talk to enough people”
Yep, that’s me! And this is what both of my business coaches tell me. Not just once, but many times! My job is to create software for small businesses, so I spend most of my day staring at a screen. This is what I have done since I first started programming in the early 80’s, and it is where I feel comfortable.
I have to force myself to meet, and talk to people! Listening to other business owners, I am not on my own. I am a member of Newark, Grantham and Lincoln’s business club. I was a BNI & 4Networking member for many years and I also attend other networking events.
The key word here is attend! I am present, but not making the most of the event! I talk to familiar faces before the meeting, I talk to the people round my table, at the break I hide, and then I leave! Once the meeting is over, I don’t interact with the new people I’ve met or even the people I’ve known for years! I know. You know. And both my coaches know, that this is not how to network, build a business, or find new opportunities!
One of my goals for 2026 is to change this, and I am going to use Candid CRM to help me. Each networking event I am going to find 3 people (minimum) and:
- Get their contact details (scan business card)
- Create an action for the same day to email them to ask for one2one.
- Complete the action that same day.
This is a big change for me. The one2ones are not to sell bespoke software systems to these people. It is to share problems, ideas, and solutions, and to look for opportunities. Opportunities not just for me, but for them and other people I have met eg. referrals.
First networking meeting is on Friday, Newark Business Club, lets see how I get on.









